God Is Love

我們不是說在戀愛中了解對方“有什麽”和“做什麽”不重要，而是說這些不是最關鍵的。能夠使婚姻和諧、穩定、長久的，是人的心。配偶是要跟你共度一生的人，所以他（她）的品格如何才是最為要緊的。

   （1）他是一個仁愛的人，還是一個冷酷的人？看到別人需要幫助的時候，他是積極伸出救援安慰之手，還是憤憤地說“我需要幫助的時候，誰幫助我了”？

   （2）他是一個喜樂的人，還是消極悲觀的人？他每天是以微笑面對生活，還是唉聲嘆氣、愁眉不展？在你遇到痛苦、挫折和失敗的時候，他是鼓勵你說“沒關系，我們重新再來！”，還是他更加泄氣地埋怨和嘮叨說“算了吧，沒指望了”？

   （3）他是一個喜歡與人和平相處的人，還是一個喜歡與人鬥的人？他是凡事願意默默給別人帶來祝福，顧全大局，還是到處喜歡出風頭，劍拔弩張的人？

   （4）他是忍耐大度的人，還是小肚雞腸？遇到一些不公正的待遇或者他人的誤會，他是老練地以寬容的心去面對，還是賭氣、詛咒說“讓他見鬼去吧，不得好死！”？

   （5）他是以恩慈對待別人的人，還是一有機會就打擊報復別人？受到別人傷害的時候，他是恩待傷害自己的人，與人為善、主動修好，還是抓住人家的錯誤不放，咬牙切齒說“等著瞧！看我怎麽收拾你！君子報仇，十年不晚”？

   （6）他是個良善的人，還是個惡毒的人？對於老人、孩子、殘疾人，他是像對待你一樣親切地對待他們，還是冷眼相待？

Time flies. It’s only one day to have a rest and the day after tomorrow I’ll begin to give the lecture. Before the holiday I intend to read many books ambitiously but in fact I’m difficult to complete my plan coz during the Chinese New Year the individuals are likely to visit relatives and friends therefore I’m difficult to settle down to study especially I’m afraid that there are someone always urging me to find the partner. Anyway everything will return to normal when the holiday ends and I can concentrate my energy on the working and studying.

When we fall in trouble, we always can’t help worry. At this time we must keep calm and patience as well as learn to wait.

To learn to wait doesn’t mean that you should stop forever on the contrary to learn to wait means you shouldn’t stop till you acquire the success with your patience.

To learn to wait until you find the right way.

To learn to wait until you finish your task.

To learn to wait until you become calmer.

To learn to wait until you gain the success.

To learn to wait until you know about the one.

To learn to wait until you know about your real wishes.

To learn to wait until you become you wanna to be.

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I think our real enemy is ourselves in deed. Sometimes we feel weakness and want to escape when facing the hardship. We also know we should confront the difficulty bravely therefore we have to struggle with our old idea. However we must remind ourselves constantly to conquer our emotion to make us more reasonable.

Now I’m very glad to introduce you the Open Courses in 网易. The address is http://open.163.com/. A colleague introduced it to me. All of these open courses are free and come from the most famous universities in the world. There are a variety of free courses. Here we can feel the cutting-edge science and these courses leave me a lasting impression. Tell the truth I wish I can have the chance to get further study abroad one day to experience the rigorous scholarship. However I have a dream that I wish one day I can be as an academic to teach in the university. That’s feeling will be very well. Anyway I must work hard and studying hard. The supervisor

This afternoon I saw an India movie clips which is about the fighting between the police and gang in CCTV6-the Movie Channel. In the past many India movies especially the India are both dancing and singing left me much good impression. Although this movie also reflects these features of India but I have sad to say that this movie is filled with violence and sexy which will have many negative effects on children. From the movie we can also learn about the current situation of India which is pretty worrying. Maybe it is a global problem.

However I wish there are more and more health and inspirational films made. Of course the first we should choose the real good and excellent movie actively

Today I received an English mail which said that she is a 25 years old woman who comes from Libya and she has a daughter. Her father had dead in the civil war and leave $14.2milion to her. But she can’t inherit this legacy because of some reasons. Someone told her that she can inherit this money unless she finds a partner who must be a foreigner and would like to take care of her. She promised that she would like to give the one who help her 20% of the legacy as recompense. When mentioned how did she know my address, she said that she got my email address from a Christmas Sector. Well, it must be a scam! How does she dare to cheat the others taking the name of God? This is absolutely disgusting! I deleted this email at once.

Since 3 days ago I decided to write down at least 3 stuffs which are worth to thank into my loose-leaf note book every day. I think that it’s a good habit coz it can make me to seek for many wonderful things happened in every day and help me keep a good feeling as well as make me more cherish my life. I believe all of the difficulties will be gone one day. I know if I want to be successful, I must change myself bravely and get rid of my defect. Obviously the first I must stop complaining. What can I do is to keep calm and patient then think carefully until to find the right way to solve the problem.

Recently I read 7周轻松突破雅思阅读 which is written by 杨凡 and I have read the Chapter II 有顺序的细节题. This afternoon when I do the reading comprehension, I got fifteen answers correct and only three wrong. Well, great grade! (^_^) The test-taking technologies mentioned by this book work very well. Now to me the passage isn’t difficult and there aren’t too many new words in it compared with the past. Someone said that it’s easy to promote the score of reading comprehension. Yes, I agree with it. Of course I need to go on reading more.

In order to enhance my listening I’ll do dictation for more than 2 hours every day. It’s said that dictation is available to promote listening. The steps including: